Mother- a painful pleasure journey

“A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone’s else”- Princess Diana

All of us might have heard words like mother earth, motherland, a mother goddess and so on. These words encircle the whole life process of creation, nourishment and guarding. Word “Mother” is undoubtedly an important word which is very special and powerful. “Mother” is a word which in terms indicates privilege, influence, control, nobility and liabilities, all comprised in one person. Affectionate, Kind and Emotive but sturdy are our moms who we all have been seeing from our childhood working day and night for us.

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When women herself encounter the process of becoming a mother, the quest of understanding begins. A journey that opens up the right very moment when the mother conceives the baby. Undoubtedly, It is a process. “Mei akeli enai hu” is the thought which arrives right from the time of conception which is the magic of creation. There is something special within me; in my blood and body, growing inside is the most significant thought which makes us care more than anything else. A woman takes most of her care at that particular time only.

“When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child.” – Sophia Loren, actor and singer


Hormonal imbalance hits us which creates an emotional imbalance. Our health challenges and movements get restricted. But still, the idea of creation thrills our heartbeat when the doctor checks up to the pulse of the small one inside us. The kicks bring up the bundle of joys, and we dream of holding our baby in our arms. It is the time of pleasure, sensation, and curiosity. Labor pains are hard to, but we do resist them with a smiling face as the special moment is close.

“Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.” – Meryl Streep, actor

The wait over, the baby has arrived. Bundle full joy and happiness has come in the home. But the initial six months are exhausting, frustrating at times, full of body aches and sleepless nights. The adjustment for the baby and the new mom is new-fangled which makes it a little messy. The mother who is recovering from the delivery pain and learning to be a new mom who is quite demanding as the bay is reliant on the mother. The period is the transition period of the motherhood.

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“A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone’s else”- Princess Diana

The hormone body and shift morphing result in upheaval in how an individual feels mentally and how they fit in the world. A tug of war takes place when you become a new mom between realism and the expectation from yourself as a mom. A hormone called Oxytocin is responsible for making the babies center of attraction in their mother’s life. If a baby is born so is your mom, every unsteady in their particular manner. New motherhood is just preparing for one exam and giving some other actual test in life.

But you are still alive and filled with joy when you see your child crawling, toddling, walking, speaking and growing. It gives you enormous energy to move ahead.

“It is full of complex emotions of joy, exhaustion, love, and worry, all mixed. Your fundamental identity changes overnight.” – Catherine, Duchess of Cambridge

Years passed, you make a struggle in pursuing your career while building up your child. Yes, a mother can deliver positive energy while doing so. According to the studies, Working mothers become role models to their daughters who may help them to work further in their lives.

The society and many women worry about putting their career in first as this might disrupt their children live, but working women have children who can adapt very fast which makes their life easy further. They have more grounded, more prepared and more independent children. Still, it is yet too difficult to manage, but the joy of being a role model to your children overpasses all the difficulties with moving time. What matters is being authentic to your children; being better or worse doesn’t matter. BE YOURSELF is the best form of motherhood. If love is real, you will be loved back no matter where you are.

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“My mother has always been my emotional barometer and my guidance. I was lucky enough to get to have one woman who truly helped me through everything.” – Emma Stone, actor

The bliss of motherhood is the essential point to be remembered by all the moms who give them the energy to tackle up any situation. Feel yourselves, glad and grateful to create and build a new generation of your family. You only have the power to do so. Just learn to be Relax have patience in hard times too. Enjoy the period of motherhood and live to its fullest.

Nowadays, Moms are quite intelligent, sympathetic and know how to tackle up all the tantrums the life brings gets us at this time. Shower the period of motherhood!!! Happy mother’s day to all the mothers!!!

“Being a mom has made me so tired. And so happy.” – Tina Fey, actor, comedian, and writeMother child struggle


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